Well I think sex as an act is used by either gender for specific purposes, some simple, some complex, usually different purposes dependant on gender, for me it's a very sacred thing that should be explored with a person you feel a deep emotional connection with namely love, most people of either gender have given up on this premise for lust and ego, that isn't to say that I have a limited libido but it has a stasis and active mode dependant on emotion. But odds are I will never know either love again as sad as that seems I retain the capability but it seems no one cares perhaps I ask to much